Best friend and ex boyfriend dating
I don't think those are the rules of feminism so much as the rules of human decency. That's some Dawson-Joey-Pacey kind of betrayal, and I can only imagine the level of hurt you've been feeling.
I dealt with a similar sort of situation with an ex and a best friend.
Basically, I encouraged my gay BFF to hang with an ex of mine because why not? The second I set it up though, I regretted it, because I started thinking about what would happen if they hit it off and crushed on each other. We don't betray the ones we love the most, or at least we try not to!
Even though I no longer had feelings for my ex, that didn't mean I would want him shacking up with my best friend! Luckily, they didn't hook up, but I felt like my ex would have if given the opportunity. I understand that no one is perfect and that shit does, in fact, sometimes happen, but your best friend and your ex hooking up is a BIG dump to take.
She told Tara that if she ended the relationship with Bryce now, all would be forgiven, but Tara couldn't believe Vanessa would make her choose.
Next, Vanessa called Bryce and, well, gave him a piece of her mind.
He defended Tara, told Vanessa that yelling wouldn't help anything, and that he was "sorry she was hurt." everything he thought was wrong in their relationship and what he thinks she should have done instead.
Second, a few days ago while he was on skype with his dad, a text-message came to him on the phone. We hadn’t been private about these things in the past at all.
The text was from his ex-girlfriend arranging to meet him for lunch on Friday.
Jennifer Aniston and bestie Courtney Cox were both romantically linked with Counting Crows frontman Adam Duritz - and Katy Perry and Taylor Swift both had relationships with John Meyer (though that one did cause Bad Blood).
Simply say, “Look, I just thought you should know that (their exes name) and I have gone on a few dates.